SeduceHot Women

So you broke the ice. All you have to do now is wait for the fish to bite on the lure before you reel them in! This is the point in time where you have to be creative and you have to be able to improvise a bit. If you approach a gorgeous woman, and give her a subtle insult as an ice breaker, she might naturally become a little insulted. This is where you can bring out a sense of humour, and gain her trust.

When you start the conversation, always remember the basic elements we have previously talked about. This is where you use all the communication skills, mirror her actions, and get things moving in the direction you want them to go in. When you are having a conversation with a woman at this point, you must always stay confident. You have to be the man they want you to be. Always keep in mind throughout the conversation that you are trying to make it seem like she is picking YOU up. Give her a false sense of control and it will work like a charm.

When you are talking to them, be confident almost to the point of being cocky. You can pull off being an asshole as long as you have a smile on your face. For example: One day I was testing out exactly what I could tell women and how they would react. In the middle of a conversation with a total ditz, I looked at her, smiled and happily said to her, "you really are a dumb whore, aren't you?" Because I sounded all happy when I said it, she just started blushing and giggling, and told me that I was really funny. She wouldn't lay off me for the rest of the night! You can do anything with the right level of charisma. When you are happy and energetic, you can joke around with women in an arrogant sort of way. If you tell her about a hobby of yours for example, and she starts talking about it, you can tell her something like "you know, just because I like something, doesn't mean you have to. You should really just be yourself." This implies that she is trying to pick you up by trying to be compatible with you. This won't make her want you per say, but instead makes her think that she is trying to pick you up. So when you go to seal the deal, she will think to herself that she has accomplished her goal, as if that is what she was trying for. While in this level of conversation, you must remember that you can't go off talking about yourself. Don't say anything about yourself unless it comes up in conversation. When it does, don't say anything in a bragging manner. If you are talking about yourself, say it as if it's nothing or not important. Be the man she is looking for. Think of all the main characteristics that women look for in men. Be confident, clever, funny and a little arrogant. Don't be pushy, don't talk too much and don't be shy. If you look like you are having fun, then you put out a glow people will sense.

This is the point in time when you ask all the open-ended questions. Keep the conversation going, but don't ask questions that are too personal or too direct unless appropriate for the moment. It is very important that you do not invade her personal space unless you are welcome. Everyone has a certain level of comfort, and everyone has their own personal area around themselves that they don't want anyone to enter (unless they are invited to do so).

Physical contact is good, and is a way to deepen the connection during a conversation. Just don't go grabbing her arm, which would make her uncomfortable. Make it look accidental; bump your foot into hers. If you are standing up talking, you can point to a really nasty guy across the room and tell her while nudging her with your elbow, "hey! Look at that sexy guy over there! I think he wants you! Want me to go get him for you?" By saying something like this, you are opening up so much in the conversation. You just made physical contact in a very casual manner. You also made a joke that boosts your position as alpha male, and most importantly, you have opened up a new topic of conversation. You are now talking about someone wanting her. If you do a good job and point out a really old man, or someone equally as disturbing, she may reply something like, "he's not quite my type." That's when you can enter a deeper level of talking by asking the right questions. You can reply, "wow, you're a picky one! You mean to tell me you don't like old men with wrinkles that need to sleep with an oxygen mask? What else could you ask for?" You just asked her what she looks for in a man. This is where you take notes. Also, you are making her think to herself about what she wants. Often, when they are going through their mental checklist of what they look for in a man, they are evaluating you, realizing you meet all the requirements.

When having a conversation with the intent of a pick up, remember all the secrets of seduction that we have talked about so far. Analyze the woman, be the alpha male, and use proper verbal as well as physical communication. If you stay confident, show pride and a good sense of humour, she will be ready for you to seal the deal in no time at all. Always remember to stay positive; don't complain about anything or let someone bother you. If you do so, you are lowering yourself and your energies; people will sense that. Just sit back, have fun, and let her think that she is picking you up.