The G Spot And The Venus Butterfly
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When talking about the "G" spot, what comes to mind for most is "fact or fiction?" Well, let me tell you from experience, it's real. You can make a woman pour like the Niagara falls if you learn to be patient, take your time and practice. It is achievable, but no matter how good you are, this requires extreme concentration from the woman. She must be completely relaxed, and she has to make a conscious effort to have one. It is said that most women can only have a "G" spot orgasm after having at least one or more regular orgasms, and I have yet to prove this saying wrong. There is a technique used in relation to the "G" spot called the "Venus butterfly", which is a proven method in giving a "G" spot orgasm to a woman.
Before I tell you how to perform the butterfly, it is important to know where and what the "G" spot is in the first place. The "G" spot is an area on the inside or front wall of the woman's vagina, between the opening and the cervix, which is known to be a spot that is extremely sensitive to stimulation. It is said that the "G" spot is either a bunch of nerves coming from the clitoris, or a gland that produces lubrication to make the vagina wet. Female ejaculation is not urine; it's the release of the fluid from the urethra or around it. This fluid is often accompanied by a really intense orgasm, which is your proof that you did an amazing job. The stimulation of the "G" spot is what is said to cause the woman to ejaculate. To find the "G" spot, insert a finger in the vagina with your palm up facing her pubic area. Curve your fingers up, and place them as if they were behind the clitoris. You might find a little rough spot there, as well as you may find nothing at all. Doing this can do a few things; most commonly it will give extreme pleasure, but it can also make her have an urge to urinate, or both. Playing around with it is probably your best way of telling exactly if she really enjoys it or not. It is said that not all woman have a "G" spot, and some women won't feel any pleasure from "G" spot stimulation. But from what I have seen, I've never come across a woman that didn't have the time of her life while the butterfly was performed on her.
In order to perform the butterfly, you need to pleasure three things at once. You must provide: clitoral, "G" spot, and anal stimulation. Step one would be to lick the clitoral hood, as you usually would while performing oral sex. If you aren't familiar with oral sex, read the previous section on how to do it. Once you are providing clitoral stimulation, you gently insert your finger and caress the "G" spot. Move up and down gently around the spot with your index finger. You can use other fingers, but this can make it harder to perform the next step. You need your pinkie to be free, to caress her anus with it. Not all people are comfortable playing with the anus, and some just don't want to go anywhere near it or don't want to be touched there. You don't have to penetrate at all, but either way don't go too crazy, and use the juices from her vagina to lubricate the anus. Make it nice and slippery. If you can keep those three things going all at once while still being constant, she will be calling you a god in no time.
Even if she doesn't get a "G" spot orgasm, this will certainly give her the orgasm of a life time. If you can keep everything up, and become comfortable with performing the "Venus butterfly", you can use your other hand to caress her body or even her nipples. Score! Quad stimulation; now that's a trade secret of a sex god! I have personally started off pleasuring a woman with the butterfly, and gave her her first orgasm in minutes. You'd be amazed how easy this is, with the "Venus butterfly" and proper foreplay.
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