SeduceHot Women

Here we are. The moment of truth. This will determine if you will be calling her later, or if she'll be taking "the tour" of your place. If you have done everything right so far, sealing the deal is actually the easiest part.

The most common mistake men make while trying to seal the deal is having a sudden loss of confidence. They crawl inside their shell and quietly ask for a phone number. You'll sometimes hear something along the lines of, "do you think I could maybe have your phone number?" Well, that's not going to do you any good. First off, you aren't showing much confidence. Saying things like, "do you think...?" and "maybe" are all wrong. In fact, you should never ask her anything when you seal the deal. You already know she is coming to your house, or that she is giving you her number, so why even ask? The best thing to do is to just tell her straight up, "I have to run, but I'll call you as soon as I find the time." When using this line, the typical reply has always been something along the lines of, "sounds great, let me write down my number!" When sealing things off with a sentence like that, you are also telling her that you will call her when you find the time. This shows her that you are important and busy, but will make the time to call her. No better way to make her feel like she's special!

Believe it or not, asking for sex is just as easy as asking for her number. If you've played your cards right, and you've received all the signs that she is ready for you to seal the deal (which we will discuss further), you can just simply come out and say with confidence, "well, I'm having fun here, but you look like you're ready to go" or "did you want to get yourself another drink before we go?" While using these lines, you're implying that you are getting together. There's no question, and you don't need to wait for a "yes" or "no". When this is done right, the reply you will get will be along the lines of, "no, I'm good." And then you just go. Easy as that. If you haven't read the right signs, and she isn't ready to go, or it was too soon to bring it up, she could reply, "what do you mean?" You haven't directly said you are leaving together, so you can easily trick her by saying something like, "well, I was thinking of leaving soon but I'm having a good time talking to you. I was just asking you if you'll be having another drink because if you are, I might stay a little longer." Now, I personally never have had to use a rebuttal like that, but if I did, it would be along those lines, as you are completely removing the idea that you implied she was going home with you. She'll be thinking about it still while you continue, and that's just as good!

The biggest mistake that most guys make when they try to get a number or bring a lady home is timing. You can't wait too long as she might get bored, have to leave or might get distracted by a friend. Also, you cant rush it either; if you rush it, you will be asking for failure. When do you seal the deal? Well, there really isn't a set time. It all depends on the woman, and how you are coming along. Some women will naturally take more time and some will take as little as a few minutes. What you want to do is look for signs. As discussed in the chapter about communication, women give out quite a bit of physical communication when they are attracted to or interested in a man. This can include anything from touching their face, neck or legs. They can be fixing their clothes, jewellery or their hair. They might also lean into you and start naturally mirroring your posture without even knowing they are doing it. These are all signs! If she is leaning into you, smiling, playing with her hair, and you have at some point made physical contact and received a positive response, this is where you make your move. She is telling you, in so many ways, that she is waiting for you to ask her for something, whether it's sex or a phone number! If you read the signs, you will know exactly when your cue is. Women have so many ways of saying things without actually using verbal communication. With enough practice, you will recognize all of them!

As long as you don't get all soft and gentle when it comes time to getting their number or asking them over, you won't have any problems closing things off. Just be confident and tell her (don't ask her) to give you her number, email, or whatever you are after.