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Physical communication is as important as verbal communication, and you definitely have the advantage if you have the right body language. Physical communication is more important on a subconscious level, as it can suggest many things that verbal communication wouldn't.

You can tell many things from a person just by looking at them; emotions are one of the most obvious. When someone is frustrated, angry, sad or happy, it is easy to distinguish by the look on their face. This is one of the reasons you must leave your worries behind you in the process of picking up a woman. If you are mad or angry because of something that happened earlier that day, let it go, or it will show up in the way you act and do things. Be as charismatic as possible. You want people to see you having a great time, by them just looking at you. If someone tells you something you don’t like or it pisses you off, let it go. If you let it bother you, then you bring yourself down, and people will be able to tell.

When you are talking to a woman, you should always mirror her posture. Don’t make it obvious that you are looking at what she is doing. Just keep the conversation going as usual, but mimic certain little things. If she is sitting with her elbows on the table, put your elbows on the table. If she has her arms crossed, then you must cross your arms. When you mirror someone like this, you are actually making them feel more comfortable and at ease, without them even knowing it. It is shown that couples who are extremely attracted to each other or are in love often mimic each other without even knowing it. Both parties just seem to flow together without either of them doing it on purpose. When you mirror a woman you are seducing, you are making a subconscious connection; you are making her feel more connected and attracted to you. This is something extremely easy to do, and you miss out on a lot if you don’t do it.

Learning to read body language is also very beneficial. If she starts mirroring you, then she is naturally interested. When talking to a woman, lean in very slightly. When a woman leans toward the man she's talking to, she is showing interest in the conversation. This is a good way to tell that a woman is interested in you. Here are other obvious signs of flirting:

-Touching their neck, face, legs -Playing with their hair -Blushing

Learn to read how women are positioned. If a woman is sitting down and her legs as well as her arms are crossed, then she is very closed, and probably won't be too receptive of having someone approach them. If a woman has her hands in her pockets, or has her arms crossed and is avoiding eye contact, she is usually telling people that she doesn’t want to be bothered. We will tell you later in the following chapters how to approach women, and when to approach them.

When talking, it is good to make physical contact. Be careful when doing this, as you can sound off alarm bells if you do this the wrong way. Don’t be aggressive or grab. What you want to do is simply make it accidental. If you are sitting down for example, bump your foot into hers. If she keeps her foot there, then simply keep your feet touching. A simple contact such as this is enough to open up a deeper, more connected level of communication.


Eye contact is a given. How are you supposed to maintain a conversation if you aren’t looking at her? There is however, a great difference between staring and using eye contact. Don’t stare; be sure you are looking away from her eyes from time to time. If you maintain good eye contact, then it shows you are interested in the conversation. If you keep looking away at someone else, the time or pretty much anything other then her, she will be able to sense this and think you aren’t interested or listening to her. Even if you don’t care about how in grade 5 she fell in a ditch and broke her leg, pretend that you care. Paying attention no matter how boring or annoying she might be will pay off, when you get with her later that night!

Overall, communication can take a lot of practice. For others, it comes naturally and takes no effort at all. If you need time before approaching the ladies, then take time. Start off having as many conversations as possible. Even if you are already good at communicating, practice is still key to keep you on top of things. Remember all these skills, as they are extremely useful when you will learn to apply them.